the following writing is my response from an article titled "中华文化" or Chinese Culture, posted by a friend of mine. I felt that the writing really expressed who i see myself as, and i think should be shared with everybody.

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hey bro, how you're doing?

i agree with the fact that when you are a Chinese, you cant run away from it, no matter where you were born, and how you were brought up. If you're not Chinese culturally, you'll at least be Chinese from the biological standpoint, with the trademark black hair and slanted eyes.

from your writing, you sort of imply that you resent the fact that Chinese people are no longer "Chinese" enough. for me, its just an inevitable process of assimilating with the local culture of the host country, including us at Malaysia.

Don't you think that no matter what race or ethnicity you are from, once you have immigrated to a new place, you should try your best to assimilate or at best adapt to their culture? and not continue to expect things to be the same as your home country? don't you think by continuously championing only your cultural values around a society alien to it will only cause you to rejected by the mainstream society?

just look at actions of Dong Jiao Zong, or those groups such as Suqiu or perhaps, DAP and MCA. despite being at Malaysia for almost 200 years, we are still not fully accepted as Malaysians because were just not trying to be one. We still have students, even parliamentarians who cant speak proper Malay language, we despise those Chinese folks who married Malay woman and have converted to Islam, were not allowing reviews to be done on Chinese schools education in Malaysia, too many examples to be said here - were just not trying hard enough.

the fact that the world is globalizing does not really gives us a space to champion racial ideals as people tend to mix around more, and having contacts with people other than their own racial background. i think that the world is shifting away from racial ideas and are moving towards a nationalistic idea for everybody regardless of their race. Americanism, Pancasila from Indonesia, or even rukun negara should be good examples. anybody can subscribe to the "freedom to pursuit their happiness" ideal rather than "zhong hua jing shen" which is obviously very Chinese, since an Indian or Caucasian will never be able to subscribe to it.

however, that doesn't mean you should get rid of anything Chinese in you. i will personally allocate "Chineseness" to some of my cultural space, but being a Malaysian is more important to me. for example, ill let my child learn Mandarin, but ill make sure that he/she will have an excellent command of Malay (its about being Malaysian) and English (youll need it to survive the world).

just to let you know, i myself am a 4th generation Malaysian Chinese, and i can proudly say that my allegiance is with Malaysia. if China is going to war with Malaysia, il personally take up weapons and fight with Malaysia. What about you? im sure you are at least a 3rd generation yourself.

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*P/S will provide the link to the posting once i received an ok from the writer.