why can people respect each other's religion?  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

i got pissed today. someone made a very rude and blunt statement by saying that bible changes through time, and their "Holy book" doesn't. come on, ppl do talk about how good their faith is, but there is no need to bash other people's faith. they can bash Christians, but when made the Holy Father made some statement that challenges them, they go around killing people and burn churches.

that person is a disgrace to her own faith. your faith has made a pretty bad reputation in the world now, and u just made it worse.

u know who u r.

Is this True?  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

What Jia Wei Ong Means

You are fair, honest, and logical. You are a natural leader, and people respect you.

You never give up, and you will succeed... even if it takes you a hundred tries.

You are rational enough to see every part of a problem. You are great at giving other people advice.

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.

You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.

You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.

You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.

You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are very charming... dangerously so. You have the potential to break a lot of hearts.

You know how what you want, how to get it, and that you will get it.

You have the power to rule the world. Let's hope you're a benevolent dictator!

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.

You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.

At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are well rounded, with a complete perspective on life.

You are solid and dependable. You are loyal, and people can count on you.

At times, you can be a bit too serious. You tend to put too much pressure on yourself.

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.

You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.

You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

You are deeply philosophical and thoughtful. You tend to analyze every aspect of your life.

You are intuitive, brilliant, and quite introverted. You value your time alone.

Often times, you are grumpy with other people. You don't appreciate them trying to interfere in your affairs.

Seriously i dont really believe in this. what do you guys think?

i miss these...  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

thanks for visiting this webpage - http://kampungboycitygal.blogspot.com , i found myself reminded of these food...

1. hainan chicken rice served at :

2. keropok lekor losong at Kak Yah's

3. Mak Long's (in ganu Mok Long) fried noodles with the little kopok...

my god..where the hell am i gonna get them here?

messed up my Blogger..  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

jeez was trying to change my templates when suddenly i lost my webpage links, and my other blogs link. suck ass ! am now too lazy yo fix anything, so just put in a few blogs that i can remember.

sorry readers if its a bit messed up!


Psalm 23 for the Cyber Age (nice one!!)  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

The Lord is my programmer, i shall not crash,
He installed his software on the harddisk of my head.
All of His commands are user-friendly.
His directory guides me to the right choices for His name's sake.
Even though i scroll through the problems of life
i will fear no bug, for He is my backup, His password protects me.
He prepares a menu before me in the presence of my enemies.
His help is only a keystroke away.

Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life.
And my file will be merged with His, and saved forever.

Got it!!  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

After some hard work on TradeMme( sort of an ebay in NZ), i found myself this....

A Brett Favre #4 NFL Home Jersey of Green Bay Packers! holy moly! and its only 40 dollars! cheap! an original jersey till cost around 150 dollars!!

just to those who do not know who is this favre, and y am i so excited to have his jersey..read below.

Brett Lorenzo Favre (pronounced /ˈfɑrv/[1]) (born on October 10, 1969, in Gulfport, Mississippi, USA) is a former American football player who was the starting quarterback for the Green Bay Packers of the National Football League (NFL) from 1992 to 2007.

Favre is the only three-time AP MVP (1995-97) in NFL history and has led the Packers to two Super Bowls. His records include:
most career NFL touchdown passes (442),
most career NFL passing yards (61,655),
most career pass completions (5,377),
most career pass attempts (8,758),
most career NFL interceptions thrown (288),
most consecutive starts among NFL quarterbacks (253; 275 total starts including playoffs),
most career victories as a starting quarterback (160).


must relationship base on the R-factor?  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

i got a bit disappointed today. no. not just a bit, i think im kinda disappointed.

i was left out by my bunch of cohort mates on their walk. none of them even texted me to see if i know if they r going out. in fact, i texted them and yet none of them replied. (it always happened to me)

im not furious at them, perhaps its my fault. perhaps because im nobody.

why should i day nobody? i did some thinking about this, and this is my explanation.

i grew up in terengganu, where well there is little people of my kind. it doesnt help when i am in a malay majority neighbourhood. however, i cherish being in such situation, being able to mix and mingle around with the malays as well my my kind of people. life seems normal until i got in to IPBA.

it is there when i found out how distinct i am from my own kind of people, in both lifestyle and ideology.

i seldom eat in bowl, i even struggled on chinese dining ethics. im relaxed and slow in approaching my life, seeing that being "kiasu" means nothing. i suck at maths, i hate those "money is everything" ideology. i dun eat exotic food, not even organs. i dun gamble, and i dun really like mandarin at school.

being chinese is about being those listed above. it is there that i notice i should not call myself a chinese, as i dun think i am anymore. hence, i call myself a malaysian.

being malaysian means being raceless. i love it. for me, race are one stupid idea created by human intelligence. we are all human, same in the eyes of God almighty.

but people around me do not share their ideas with me. they still prefer to stick with their people.hence, i do not belong to the any my 'once i am in ' racial group, nor i feel the sense of being in the b racial group people as well. so there i am, drfting alone in the sea where nobody cares about me.

is this the reason why im not able to forge a deep, trusting friendship, or even relationship? because people just do not see me as "their own kind of people"? hence do not put their trust in me because the society doesnt seem to accept that?

is it by being a malaysian who prefers to live a raceless life, i will not be accepted into any groups? because i do not adhere to their racial lines? must it that a person be friends with the racial groups he/he is in?

i really hope such is not the reason i wasnt texted out. i hope its just about any other things.

i dedicate this expression of my heart to God, may he accepts my confession.
in the name of the father, and the son and the holy spirit, amen.

Just For A Day  

Posted by Nigel J. W. Ong

Lord, if only for a day,
I can be really good,
Be always ready to obey
And do the things i should,
Just, for a day.

Lord, if only for a day,
I can take trials or fun
Or anything that comes,
and say,
Not my will but Thine be done.
Just, for a day.

Lord, if only for a day,
I can do this. Then,
When each new morning
comes, I'll pray
For grace to preservere again,
Just for a day.